The most influential single thing that has probably happened to me in my life so far is my senior year cross country season. It was a culmination of a lot of things that were going on in my life, and it was an excellent way to end my high school career. This experience also gives me the confidence and motivation to put everything on the table in every aspect of my life, and to always put forth the greatest effort that I can.
My running career had a very promising start, where I unexpectedly qualified for the state race as a freshman, greatly improving my time each week, and it felt like I could do anything. Everyone around me heralded me as the next big thing at my high school, and it seemed like I could really be the one they were saying I was. This mental state of mine sadly didn’t last very long. My sophomore and junior years I was unable to overcome the time I had set as a freshman, and I failed to qualify for the state race. I had struggled to find reasons to keep putting in as much effort as I used to, and I was overall very flimsy in my determination and dedication. The seniors I ran with as a freshman had graduated, and I felt largely alone. This lack of motivation was also present in my academic career, and was a very bad trait of mine for the longest time. What really put me down is the fact that there was a runner who was much younger than me but much faster, and that made me feel like I had peaked as an athlete. I had begun to think the same sorts of things about my academic life, thinking that some people are just smarter than others and sometimes there is no way for me to accomplish my goals.
At the end of my junior year, I decided that I couldn’t keep behaving that way I was if I wanted to succeed in the world. I knew that I had to drastically change the way that I thought and the way I applied myself in the things I did. I began training very early in the summer, and I focused on building mental toughness. The most challenging part of the process was looking my past failures in the face and telling myself I could and needed to do better. Facing our failures is something that we can often escape in high school, as it is easy to ignore a bad grade on a tricky assignment, or ignore a C in a class that could’ve been improved with effort. Luckily for me, cross country is a sport where you very directly must face your failures and have the ability to self reflect in order to drag yourself higher to stand on the pedestal you desire. I took my aloneness, which had previously been a bad aspect of myself, and utilized it to its fullest potential, becoming someone who was very capable of putting in the work by themselves with no recognition. Strangely enough, finding strength in my aloneness allowed me to be a better teammate to those around me who I hadn’t appreciated enough.
The process I just described may seem simple on paper, but the process felt unbelievably unintuitive and challenging, and it is the kind of struggle that many people go through. Each person must deal with this sort of struggle their own way. After taking this new approach, I was improving exponentially, and I had quickly become the fastest runner on the team again, and I was placing very well in most races. Without knowing it I had become a role model for the rest of the runners, and my success was pushing everyone to do better and better. At the district race, I took first place by a few seconds, and set my school record in the 5k as 15:54, beating the previous best time by six seconds. The following week, I won the regional race by a few seconds as well, becoming the first regional champion from my high school in over four years. I went on to place 14th in the state race, blowing away all of my expectations from previous years. My team also went on to qualify for the state race, the first time my high school has qualified as a team in over four years as well, and we went on to do better than and team from my high school ever has at the state meet. It was arguably the most successful cross country my high school had seen, and I continue to take the lessons I’ve learned with me and apply them to all the aspects of my life.
There is one specific scenario that I remember from the season, and that was near the final stretch of the regional meet. I was locked in on someone who I expected to lead the group at the end, and then someone came sprinting way faster than both of us with around 800 meters left, and my only choice was to change my focus to him and ignore how I was feeling, as beating him was the only option. Through this, I eventually passed him on the last corner, and beat him by about 15 meters in the end. This paints a very good picture of the nature of life. It’s only to possible to plan things so far ahead. Unexpected challenges will continue to arise, and the only way to continue is to greet them with a smile, dive in, and enjoy the process. I continue to have new influential experiences, but I hope to keep this mindset that I’ve learned from my running career in high school with me until my body wears out. That’s the only way to truly experience life and what it has to offer.
Me running at a meet in Chilicothe:
Me bent over after a race:
Me freshman year immediately after qualifying for the state race:
Me receiving first place during the regional race award ceremony: