Last week I introduced the idea of what I believe 4-H truly nurtures in terms of youth development. I spoke of the work ethic that I have seen youth exhibit in livestock projects, as camp counselors, and with their adult lives through college and careers. This week I am turning my focus to communications and leadership in 4-H youth. While they are broad skills, I feel that youth involved in 4-H programs are more prepared to communicate effectively, and lead (or know when to follow).
In the past few weeks we have been working feverishly to prepare for 4-H Camp. Now, we have been preparing for almost 6 months now – but the reality has set in. In just a few days camp will be upon us and many youth will be placed into our responsibility. It is the responsibility of the teen counselors and myself to communicate with campers, staff, the camp, and each other effectively to ensure that camp goes as great as possible! I would be lying if I told you that communicating with teenagers is simple – but I leave camp every year knowing that I have down my absolute best to talk to them, encourage them, and build them to their best potential while they were counselors at camp. Sometimes the best way for them to understand how to communicate is to see their peers and other adults do it effectively.
Through their communication, teens also begin to build a sense of their place in leadership. Some teens are naturals- stealing the show, talking to the masses, and laughing, while others quietly lead from the sidelines. Camp counselors are able to gain these experiences while at camp by working with our adult staff, and one another. It also shows them that they do not always need to lead – but to also be a good follower. Campers after all tend to mimic what they see!
While I have focused on one opportunity that 4-H youth have, there are many ways that all youth can gain skills in improving their communications and leadership. 4-H offers demonstrations, public speaking, parliamentary procedure, officer positions, training, and individual opportunities for youth to explore their interests. While most youth wouldn’t tell you that their 4-H demonstrations were their favorite part of 4-H – I bet most alumni will tell you that they are a more confident public speaker because of it.
