Competency: Patient care
Throughout the last couple years, I have realized how important effective listening skills are in patient care. This learning process started immediately during my first clinical rotation. I did L&D and Gyn and Mount Carmel St. Anne’s hospital where I quickly realized how important both effective listening and communication are when taking care of patients. I distinctly remember the many cases of vaginal bleeding my resident and I saw when consulted to the ED. Many times, these patients were in the midst of a spontaneous loss. Managing patients who were going through this was a rewarding experience. My resident let me interview and counsel a patient who was most likely having a spontaneous loss. She advised me to always ask the patient how they were feeling about the pregnancy before making any assumptions about how the patient felt about the spontaneous loss. This fact helped me relate to the patient on a major level and helped me with my patient care. When I talked to my patient, I introduced myself, asked her a couple questions, and then asked her how she felt about the pregnancy. She replied to me that she was not ready for the pregnancy and that everything happened for a reason. The second patient I saw that night was going through a similar situation. When I asked her how she felt about the pregnancy, she immediately started sobbing. These two experiences showed me patients on two different ends of the spectrum. In these situations, it was so important to listen and understand the values of the patient in order to best communicate. This skill helped me throughout the rest of third and fourth year and was one of the important reasons I choose psychiatry.
Another example of when I valued the importance of effective listening was on my third year medicine rotation. A patient of ours decided during the course of her hospitalization that she was going to remove herself from a 25 year relationship involving physical and emotional abuse. I remember being able to take time and sit down with my patient to listen to her stressors and this helped me build a strong rapport with the patient. I was able to give her confidence in her decision to eventually leave her husband. I have always felt like I have been a good listener, however, my major goal for the rest of third and fourth year were to be able to effectively listen in an efficient way. Yes, it is very important to understand the patient perspective. However, as I get busier in residency I want to be able to prioritize what is most important to the patient, what is most important as a clinician, and try to merge interests.
Update:
In my fourth year, I took a palliative care elective, in which all the skills I had learned about communication during my third year of medical school was put to test. I really learned how so many doctors fall into the trap of advising before understanding where the patient is coming from. We would receive many consults to assess goals of care for patients which would many times be completely misunderstand by primary teams. This rotation really taught me how important medical decisions can drastically change based on how much you listen, understand, and question the patient. Throughout this experience, I was able to practice my listening skills as well as lead a goals of treatment conversation (albeit with extreme guidance of my attending). I was able to understand what was important to the patient (and family), what was important to us as providers, and come together in the end. It was a great way to practice some of the goals I had made for myself earlier in the year.
In order to further practice this important skill, I plan on continuing to ask open-ended questions to patients during the start of my residency. As I am going into psychiatry, I think this is an extremely important skill. I also want to practice having an agenda in my head of what I want to talk about during my time with a patient so I am able to efficiently communicate as well in order to improve patient care.
Below is an artifact from my palliative care rotation.