“Sabriya: Damascus Bitter Sweet” by Ulfat Idilbi is a young adult novel first published in Syria. In 1995, Peter Clark translated the text and it was published in the Emerging Voices series. The author of this novel was born in Damascus and grew-up during the French Mandate of Syria. She began her literary career by publishing stories about the resistance movement within the country and went on to be a prominent advocate for women in the Middle East. “Sabriya: Damascus Bitter Sweet” is a true window into the life of a Syrian women during the early 20thcentury Mandate.
Salma, a 15-year old girl, begins the novel by sneaking into her grandfather’s funeral. She is not supposed to be there because she is a girl, and their culture does not permit this. While there, Salma notices that her aunt Sabriya is being harassed. It turned out that Sabriya planned out the funeral, which should have been arranged by her brother Raghib. However, Raghib is regarded as a screw-up by their family. After the funeral, Sabriya commits suicide, leaving her family shocked. Before she dies, she leaves her memoirs to Salma. Sabriya’s memoirs chronicle her life growing up in Damascus. As a child, she and Raghib have always conflicted with each other, stemming from when their father said to Raghib “If I had been luckier…you’d have been born a girl and she a boy (Idilbi, p. 43, 1995).” This has left him very bitter towards Sabriya. As Sabriya enters college, the revolt picks up against the French. Sabriya falls in love with Adil, someone she meets through her best friend Sami. However, both Sami and Adil join the war. Tragically, Sami dies during the battle. After Sami’s death, Sabriya and Adil attend and protest against the French Mandate. Raghib tells their mother and father about this, and they respond by pulling her out of school and force her to undergo a ‘purity test’: a physical exam to ensure she is still a virgin. Following her removal from college, Adil tells Sabriya that he wants to marry her. Raghib also ruins this for his sister. The next day, Adil is found murdered. For the next decade, Sabriya is stuck at home taking care of her parents, and has little to no freedom because of her gender.
This story demonstrates the historical suppression of women’s rights. Sabriya begins her memoir by describing clothing she was forced to wear: a headscarf, because men were not permitted to see her uncovered. In this patriarchal society, Sabriya’s father denies her permission to work. She is also restricted to educational access. For instance, there is only one secondary school open to women for enrollment. Based on the rights of women in Damascus during this time period, it is evident that life for women was very bleak. “Sabriya: Damascus: Bitter Sweet” also paints a sad picture on the impact of gender roles in Syria. While being beaten by her father, he states “From now on there’s to be no more college. No more demonstrations. You will not go out of the house. No college, no demonstrations (Idilbi, p. 134, 1995).” This brutal scene clearly shows to forced gender roles Sabriya is forced to live through during her life in Damascus. She is stuck to being a caretaker and refused permission for education and self-betterment. Another instance of strict gender role enforcement is the discussion of Raghib and Sabriya’s futures when they were children. “She’ll be getting married soon and will be devoting all her time to her home and her children,” he says before questioning Raghib’s plans (Idilbi, p. 43, 1995). The way he states this displays the clear intention of women in this society, and the lack of basic rights that they have due to gender.
“Sabriya: Damascus: Bitter Sweet” is a very powerful novel due to its graphic content and depressing plotline. Ulfat Idilbi has had personal experience living within this society, and her novel directly tells the reader about the tragedies that have occurred during it. She brings you into a complicated web of family conflict, colonialist mandates, and oppressive cultural values to paint the story of those affected most by it all. The message of this story, while depressing, can hold great value as an educational piece of YA literature. In addition to being an honest portrayal of women in this society, the novel is also in context with the French Mandate of Syria and Lebanon. Syria since then has endured continued war and hardship on its people, even a century later. This makes me question the women since Sabriya who have also had stories like hers but have not been heard. That makes the novel relevant today and is why it can be used in education to ensure those voices are not lost.
Works Cited
Idilbi, U. (1995). Sabriya: Damascus bitter sweet (P. Clark, Trans.). Northamoton: Interlink Books.