My first-year mentee was Lisa Voegler. She is from Twinsburg, Ohio which is near the Cleveland area. She is double majoring in psychology and German. One aspect that brought Lisa to Ohio State was being in a large city. She loved that there would be so many opportunities for her even if she switched her major. She also liked that the campus was large so she had the opportunity to meet all kinds of different people. Another reason that brought her to Ohio State was that her older brother is attending here for graduate school. He has loved Ohio State so far and she liked the idea that she would have someone close to her if she needed them.
Lisa and I have a good amount in common. We both love coffee. We both have a few cups each day. We also both enjoy working with students. She wants to be an advisor and I am on track to be a special educator. Another thing we have in common is sustainability. We both love finding new ways to help the earth and lessen our plastic waste. One way I leaned into this similarity is by taking her to a sustainability store on our explore Columbus. We went to Koko in Hilltop. They have numerous amount of sustainable products from skincare to dog products. At this store, you can bring your own reusable bottles to refill. This helps reduce single-use plastic waste.
Our biggest difference is that Lisa speaks German. When I first learned this I thought it was so cool. I do not know any other language other than English so I was very curious about her past and what led her to know how to speak German. Another difference we have is that she loves psychology and I do not. I always found that class difficult and hard for me to understand. I took a psychology class in both high school and college. I found both times to be challenging for me and forced me to study harder than any class before. I thought it was interesting, but I could never fully understand the topics. Lisa loves psychology and is majoring in it. She likes to learn how the brain works and all of the theories behind the behavior.
From first semester to second semester, Lisa grew in so many great ways. One way Lisa grew is by becoming more social and finding her group. First semester Lisa and I talked about how difficult it can be to find friends when all of your classes are online. I agreed with her because I have had the same issue. I did not have any in-person classes my second year so meeting new people did not happen through my classes. Lisa was able to meet new people on her floor and through mutual friends to find her group of people.
I think I grew as a mentor by stepping out of my comfort zone. I was more social with Lisa as the year went on. I am not easily able to open up to people but as I got closer to Lisa I felt comfortable to open up to her. By opening up and being honest I was able to fully tell her about my personal experiences which helped me become a better mentor.
One thing I learned from being a mentor was how beneficial we can be to our mentees. Being a year older and going through similar circumstances helped me guide Lisa in ways my mentor was unable to the year before. I helped Lisa by giving her advice on housing, classes, and meeting new friends based on my previous experiences.
The mentorship program helped my leadership development by teaching me to be more social and comfortable with people I do not know very well. Being a leader is important to me and the career I plan on going into in the future. This program has helped me build the skills I deem necessary to be successful as a special educator and help my students in the future.
In the area of mentoring, I helped Lisa by giving her advice on classes, housing, and making new friends. My mentoring experience consisted of me providing Lisa with many pieces of advice. Every time we met up we talked about so many different things that I was able to provide her my thoughts on. In the area of socialization, I was able to help Lisa by telling her ways she could socialize and meet new people. Right now it can be difficult meeting new people and getting to know them because of the pandemic. I told Lisa that making connections with people on her floor and meeting new people through friends you already have is a great way to socialize. In the area of orientation, I taught Lisa about all of the best places at Ohio State. I showed her Orton Library, which I believe is the best. I also told her about the best places to eat on campus. I think that showing her the campus and the best parts about it, helped with my skills of orientation.
The biggest benefit of the mentorship program is meeting a new friend. Usually, the mentorship chairs place you with someone who is similar to you or someone you would be great friends with. This was the case with me. If I wasn’t paired with Lisa I would probably not have had the chance to get to know her and form a connection with her. I am very happy that I completed this program and was able to meet someone new and form a great connection with Lisa.