For my STEP Signature Project, I did a study abroad in South Korea at Korea University from June to August. I attended classes that were related to my major of Political Science, and participated in activities held through the school and with local students. I also had the opportunity to travel around Korea and explore new cities.
As someone who is on the shy side and nervous being around new people, I had a tendency to limit the things that I did or the places that I went to. I really tried to get myself out there but my anxieties would hold me back from experiencing many new things. Having been studying South Korea for many years and being interested in its culture, I always knew I wanted to visit and learn more about the country I have only been able to see through a screen. When I learned about the STEP Program, I knew right away that I wanted to use the opportunity to study abroad there and immerse myself in the culture in a whole new way rather than just a vacation.
I did not know exactly what I was getting myself into the moment I stepped out of the plane and onto the Korea University bound bus. However, I would have never guessed that the things I would see, the friendships I would make, and a change in my perspective of life was what was waiting for me throughout those six weeks. I learned to open up to those who were around me and embrace the unexpected. I became more comfortable in my own skin and who I was, and shared that with my fellow students. I was surrounded not only by locals of South Korea, but hundreds of other people from different parts of the world, who just so happened to choose the same school I did. I accepted the fact that things happen for a reason based on what I experienced, whether it was good or bad, and I have taken this approach with me even after leaving.
When I say I miss Korea, I’m not just referring to the amazing places I visited and the tasty food I ate, although they are things I find myself missing a lot. I mainly am referring to the amazing friend group I found at Korea University. The university had a “Buddy Program” for their summer campus, in which multiple international students were paired with an assigned local Korea University student, to teach us more about their culture on a personal level and take us around the immense city of Seoul. I could not have been more lucky to be paired with Jaemin, as well as the other buddies that tagged along with us Sunguk, Jehyun, and Gahyun. These four buddies came together to create one big group with their students, and did so many things together. Not only did they go above and beyond for weekly activities, but they spent so much extra time just being with us and helping us check items off our list of things we wanted to do before leaving. From going to a waterpark, to late night karaoke, to staying at restaurants until five in the morning. My best memories, and funniest, are with them.
Our group has stayed heavily in contact since we came home in August. We look back at all the things we did, all the inside jokes we have, and what we miss most about our summer on the other side of the world. None of us expected that by the end of those six weeks, we would be yearning to see each other again so badly, and relive all those moments. We also have regrets about not making the absolute most of our time, which just gives us another reason to go back. Now that I am back into my daily routine as a student at Ohio State, my buddies are also learning more about American culture in real time through social media. They ask me many questions about the things I’m up to and norms in my society that are strange to them. The exchange between the students and buddies was very rewarding, and continues to be.
Not only did I open up to new people through this study abroad, but I also grew more comfortable in being alone and getting past the obstacles I thought would prevent me seeing all Korea has to offer. I was worried that the way I looked, the way I did certain things, and obviously being a foreigner would make me stand out in a bad way. However, people were so welcoming and helped me with many things in all the places I went to. Whether it was asking for directions or learning about their cultural norms, I pushed myself to not be afraid of not knowing things. I was there to learn, inside the classroom and outside. I even signed up for a tour on my own at the Demilitarized Zone at the border of North and South Korea, which is probably one of my favorite things I did. My biggest fear when I decided to study abroad was not making friends to do things with, because I knew I would not be able to do those things alone. However while I did make friends, I did so many things alone so I could see the world and I am very proud of myself for growing in that aspect. I learned to enjoy the company of new people, but also of myself.
Coming back to campus as a fourth year student, I have brought back with me a new perspective that is already improving my way of life. Confidence was something I really struggled with in the past, however Korea has fixed that immensely. I see myself in a new light now and have realized everyone’s journey in life is different. I bonded with people over our similar life experiences which really opened my eyes, but I also realized the many other experiences people have in life. My mind has been opened from places to people, and I am much more knowledgeable now about the world. I have been able to share with people the things I learned and have changed their narratives as well. I cannot wait to explore more parts of the world, whether through another study abroad or vacation, alone or with company.
Alexa Jamet