STEP Reflection: Literary Locations-Rome

For my STEP Signature Project, I participated in the Literary Locations Education Abroad program. For spring semester, I took a 3-credit hour course with a focus on Rome through literature, film, and television. The class concluded with an 11 day trip to Rome in May, giving me the opportunity to fully immerse myself in Roman history and culture.

This was my first time spending more than a few days abroad and it was also my first abroad trip without family. I was amazed by how similar yet different Italian culture was to America. Having the opportunity to explore Rome with both the class and in free time allowed me to develop a multi-layered view of the city. I realized how human connection can truly bond people. I expect to feel very uncomfortable in such a foreign location, but the kindness of people, especially the Italians, was beyond my expectations. I learned that spending time in other people’s culture can teach you a lot about yourself. Personally, I learned that not everything has to be so hurried and it is important to appreciate your surroundings.

One of the most memorable moments of my STEP Signature Project was the first dinner I had without the large group. I was incredibly nervous to venture out into the city on my own because I was definitely outside of my comfort zone. Me and my roommate decided to walk around and find a place to eat. We found this adorable Italian restaurant, but it was very authentic Italian. Walking in, I felt like people were judging me because my “American-ness” was extremely noticeable. As soon as we sat down, the waitress approached us and was honestly the sweetest person ever. She took the time to go over the Italian menu with us and ensured we had an incredible meal. It felt so nice to be welcomed with open arms in a new country and it really showed me how a little kindness can go along way.

Another interaction that led to my transformation was the tour guide we had for the trip, Daniella. She was the most knowledgeable and kind-hearted person I have ever met. She was with us many of the days, especially when we were visiting museums, churches, and other historical sites. As a tour guide, I’m sure she deals with too many tourists, yet she took the time to make sure we were having the best experience. Also, when she was guiding us around Rome, she would pause and explain everything about a sculpture or a painting which added so much culture and knowledge to the trip. Daniella was the one who truly taught me to spend time appreciating what is around you. Normally, I would look at a painting fast and move on, but with Daniella, I was able to learn so much more and learned to take my time to “smell the roses.”

This change is important to my life because I am incredibly fast-paced and busy. I am a very involved kid at Ohio State, between classes, work, and student organizations. My time in Rome has taught me that hurrying along in life will lead to me missing important moments. In the future, I plan on taking more time to appreciate important moments. For example, I will be interning with Disney for 7 months and during that time, I plan on soaking up every moment and trying to make the most of my time there.