The ACES mentorship program helped me to grow tremendously, particularly because I’ve always been the type of person who tends to shy away from leadership roles. Whereas I’ve previously always played out the role of ‘mentee’, the opportunity to instead be a mentor has shown me how important it is to communicate with others and be a guide. Kathy Cordova was my first-year mentee, and she and I share a similar career focus: the health field. She started off the school year by majoring in biochemistry, and now has switched to being pre-nursing as a psychology major (I myself am a health sciences major, and plan to become a physician’s assistant). Kathy is from Columbus, which meant that I didn’t even need to tell her that much about navigating on and off campus, as she already was very familiar with the area. Like me, Kathy chose OSU to be one of her top schools, and ended up here partially because it offered the best financial aid, and partially because she has always wanted to be a Buckeye. Upon getting to know Kathy better, I found out that many of our interests overlapped: she also loves Marvel movies, coffee shops, and being involved in the local community. For example, she is involved in PASS, a service organization that focuses on helping people such as the homeless. Kathy told me that she also loves embracing the local culture in ways such as visiting museums and exploring the Short North, something that I too love to do, since Columbus presents endless opportunities. I also enjoyed getting to see the ways in which Kathy and I were different, such as how she already surpasses my leadership and social abilities, since she is the type of person who is capable of taking charge of a situation and socializing without distraction. This is a trait that I greatly respect, and honestly have improved it in myself by merely being around Kathy.
I definitely noticed changes in Kathy between the beginnings of the first and second semesters. For example, while she came to OSU with a lot of knowledge of what to expect of the local area, she still had much to learn about everything career and major-related (which is definitely normal for a first-year student). Whereas last semester she was unsure of all of the options she had pertaining to her major and career, she now has a much better idea of what type of a path she wants to follow, as well as what careers best fit her as a person. She came in to OSU planning on becoming a neonatologist or other type of physician, and now is planning more so on going into nursing and potentially becoming a nurse practitioner. Furthermore, when I met with her for our second Explore Columbus event, she mentioned something that I have been coming to terms with in my own life as well: there is too much to life than merely to get a high-paying job. Life is too short, and while it’s important to work hard, one must also make sure that their happiness is a priority. Oftentimes, individuals who ‘live life’ the most aren’t necessarily doctors or people who spend their life working away. Instead, it’s important to get a decent job (via a decent education), and focus on taking in the world around you. Kathy learned a lesson between her first and second semesters that has taken me years to recognize, and for this, I applaud her.
As I mentioned previously, having the role of a mentor is relatively foreign to be, as I normally am one to shy from the spotlight. However, participating in the ACES mentorship program has led me to be the person who is not afraid of taking initiative and leading, since I’ve had to do those very things for my mentee. I have a fear of coming across to others as seeming to be a bossy control freak, but I now realize that that and acting as a true leader are two very different things. Being Kathy’s mentor has taught me how to guide someone else so that they can succeed in any ways possible, which is a skill that I definitely want to hold on to. When I got Kathy as my mentee (once it was announced) I started off by checking in to see how her year was progressing, and asked if she needed help in things such as finding organizations to take part in. From the start, however, I could tell that Kathy was well-organized and had adapted to the college lifestyle very smoothly. The main ways in which I was able to assist and advise her were relating to the majors and potential careers she was considering. For example, the other day I way telling her about all the options that my major (health sciences) opens up to a student, from having a desk job to becoming a doctor. I’ve been able to talk to Kathy about many of the majors and jobs that have come across her mind, such as what going into nursing or becoming a physician’s assistant would entail. Because she came to OSU as someone who has lived extremely close for a long time, I wasn’t able to necessarily orient her with campus, but instead I had the opportunity to mentor her about many aspects of college life. Ultimately, I’m extremely grateful to have had the opportunity to be Kathy’s mentor. I think that both she and I benefitted from the ACES mentorship program, as I have been able to build up the skill of taking-charge that I have always lacked, and she has gotten to hear from me information about different careers and majors that she may otherwise have been unaware of. A mentorship program is meant to be something that helps a person to feel more comfortable in new surroundings and among new people, and I think (or at least hope!) that this is precisely what Kathy got out of it. ACES has helped me to do what years of grade school never could: become someone who can act as a true leader, not a fearful follower. This is something that I’m sure is crucial to my future, as the ability to take the lead will likely prove important in both a career setting and in day-to-day life.