Graham and Cory’s Most Excellent Adventure

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In Nicaragua there are many differences in human rights compared to the United States. Por ejemplo, pedestrians do not have the right of way in Nicaragua.  This example is among the most obvious but least significant differences.

In Nicaragua, women don’t have a right to financial independence. They have no avenues through which they could gain financial independence. It appears that women are largely expected to keep the home, take care of the children, and not have careers. This socialization makes it virtually impossible for women to pursue a different life, make their own money, and stop being dependent on someone else. This financial dependence means that many people (generally men) are able to abuse the women that depend on them without any repercussions. The legal system in Nicaragua doesn’t enfranchise the women of the country, making justice an elusive and nigh-unobtainable goddess. Because of the perpetual dependence on men and the machismo culture in Nicaragua, many women in Nicaragua don’t have the right to reproductive self-determination. Many of the community leaders that we’ve met with have told us that many young women here feel that their only chance for moving out of their parent’s household is to become pregnant with someone’s child, thus ensuring that they will be taken care of, but also ensuring perpetual independence. Many women are becoming pregnant at a very young age because of these notions.

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Cory and Graham’s Homestay Reflection

Ok, here’s the deal: I, Graham, took one Spanish class like five years ago.  And I, Cory, also have only taken 101.01, and I took it a year ago.  After being in Nicaragua for four days we went on a homestay.

It started out rough.  When we first met Anielka (our host mother), neither of us could remember (or understand ) her name.  The first time we met, none of us talked very much.  This awkward first encounter inspired Graham and I to come up with some things to talk about with Anielka before our homestay officially began.  We prepared some questions but we never ended up using them.  This apparently-unnecessary preparation was kind of an indicator of the mood of our homestay experience. We both started the homestay with some amount of preconceived ideas lodged in our brains, thoughts about what we’d eat, how we’d act, how they’d act, what we’d do, etc.  We were nervous but ready to get through the experience, ready to have our so-college rich gringo life-changing adventure. In many ways, this is what we had. We got to live with and share experiences with people that changed our lives. We were living in a poorer area in a developing country. We got to ride the public transit bus (really actually some dude who owned a bus and drove where he thought people would be, usually at a breakneck pace through impossibly crowded and narrow streets) through a city we didn’t understand and couldn’t navigate on our own. We laughed and cried and took photos and fell in love with people and a city and a country while speaking a language we didn’t know and learning about ourselves. Our homestay mas o menos fulfilled most of the clichés we had heard about and were anticipating.

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