Maximize Your Energy

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Four wellsprings of energy

Feeling weary and worn out with all of life’s demands? Wishing you could have more energy to do what you need to do AND what you want to do? While energy may seem like a finite resource, there are ways to renew and maximize your energy.

According to Jim Loehr, Co-Founder of the Human Performance Institute, there are four main wellsprings of energy: physical, mental, emotional and spiritual.​

Physical energy is the most familiar and influences how tired we feel and our overall bodily well-being. This is why taking periodic breaks to walk is important, and why daily physical “refresh points” matter more than just long-term fitness goals. To increase your physical energy, you can focus on getting 7 to 8 hours of sleep per night, aiming for at least 150 minutes of weekly activity, and drinking water instead of sugary beverages.

Mental energy is drawn from analytical and thoughtful work, leaving you mentally tired even when not physically drained. Some mental tasks energize us, while others exhaust us. To improve focus, you can practice mindfulness, which involves slowing down, taking time to breathe, and reflecting.​

Positive emotional energy, which fuels performance, comes from meaningful human connections. Conversely, negative emotions like fear, frustration, and anger deplete this energy and hinder your work. You can boost your emotional quality by spending time with positive people, doing kind deeds, and making valuable contributions to your team.

Spiritual energy is what we get from doing something meaningful to us, something that speaks to our spirit—it can take the form of wisdom, compassion, integrity, joy, love, creativity or peace. ​ For example, a project that is personally meaningful may sustain you through long hours, overriding physical and mental fatigue with a profound sense of purpose.

To amplify this inner strength, focus on these practices:

  • Cultivate gratitude: Appreciate the good in your life to raise your energetic vibration.
  • Define your purpose: Write a personal mission statement to clarify what truly matters to you.
  • Establish healthy boundaries: Protect your energy in both your personal and professional life by setting clear limits.

​Would you like to assess your energy? The Human Performance Institute’s Free Energy Profile can provide a picture of your physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual energy.

Want to learn more? Check out the Corporate Athlete program. The Ohio State University Wellness office also offers Health Athlete Workshops for organizations.

Writer: Shannon Carter, Assistant Professor, Family & Consumer Sciences, Ohio State University Extension, Fairfield County

Reviewer: Sofia Carter, Extension Educator, Family & Consumer Sciences, Ohio State University Extension, Champaign County

Burnout: Reclaiming Balance

burnout written with flames burning a whole through the wordsToday we live in a fast-paced world with tight deadlines and multiple responsibilities creating a sense of overwhelming stress. We work hard and drive for success. We continue to push ourselves faster to the point of exhaustion. However, there’s a tipping point where exhaustion turns to burnout. Psychology Today defines burnout as “a state of emotional, mental, and often physical exhaustion brought on by prolonged or repeated stress.”

Burnout happens slowly overtime, often unnoticed. We start to push ourselves to get extra stuff done, gradually increasing the pressure on our accelerator. We pick up extra responsibilities at work due to cuts, there’s software changes we need to learn, a family member needs help getting to doctor appointments, driving kids to extracurriculars, home repairs, and the list continues. The next thing we know, we’ve got the accelerator pushed all the way down going 100 miles an hour. The tipping point happens when we can no longer sustain the high speed with high performance.

Understanding Burnout

We need to recognize the early signs. It’s important to pause and take inventory of all the items you’re taking care of. Be honest with yourself as you examine your response to things throughout the day. Common early warning signs include:

  • Chronic fatigue- exhaustion lingers
  • Increased irritability- small disruptions lead to major frustrations
  • Lack of motivation- tasks feel draining and pointless
  • Physical symptoms- headaches, trouble eating or sleeping, digestive issues
  • Isolation- withdraw from social obligations

Practical Strategies

Create a sustainable balance. Actionable strategies include:

  1. Prioritize self-care
  2. Set boundaries
  3. Take breaks
  4. Ask for help
  5. Reevaluate expectations

Burnout is a sign that something needs adjusted. To ease up on the accelerator, we need to work smarter and more intentionally to restore the balance. Take a deep breath, reassess, and find ways to regain control of your energy and incorporate joy into your day.

 

Written by: Amanda Bohlen, Family and Consumer Sciences, Washington County, Ohio State University Extension, Bohlen.19@osu.edu

Reviewed by: Megan Taylor, Family and Consumer Sciences/4-H Youth Development, Union County, Ohio State University Extension, taylor.4411@osu.edu

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Are You Experiencing Parental Burnout?

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Psychology Today defines burnout as “a state of emotional, mental, and often physical exhaustion brought on by prolonged or repeated stress.” Parental Burnout is experiencing those forms of exhaustion due to parenting. For example, I get myself up earlier than my family to get myself ready so then I can get everyone else ready. Then its getting kids dressed, packing lunches, getting backpacks ready, and reminding them for the 100th time to put their shoes on. By the time I get to work, I’ve already put in a couple of hours. After my 8-hour workday is complete, I’m rushing home to help with homework and fix dinner before it’s back out the door for sporting practices and/or games. The evening concludes with getting the kids to set their clothes out for the next day, baths, and bed. I fall asleep praying that everyone sleeps through the night and then wake up the next morning and do it all over again. Wash. Rinse. Repeat.

In 2022, The Ohio State University Office of the Chief Wellness Officer and College of Nursing released a working parental burnout report. In the report they shared that “burnout is associated with depression, anxiety and increased alcohol consumption in working parents, as well as the likelihood for parents to be irritable, get easily angered with their children or  engage in punitive parenting practices (i.e. yelling, insulting/criticizing, curing, spanking).”

Are you feeling a little burned out? Ask yourself these 10 questions to assess:

  1. I get/feel easily irritated with my children.
  2. I feel I am not the good parent I used to be with my child(ren).
  3. I wake up exhausted at the thought of another day with my children.
  4. I find joy in parenting my children.
  5. I have guilt about being a working parent, which affects how I parent.
  6. I feel like I am in survival mode as a parent.
  7. Parenting my child is stressful.
  8. I lose my temper easily with my children.
  9. I feel overwhelmed trying to balance my job and parenting responsibilities.
  10. I am doing a good job being a parent.

If you find that you are in severe burnout, please consider seeking help from your healthcare provider. If you feel you’re mildly to moderately in burnout, you can take action by starting some preventive interventions such as:

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  1. Practice good self-care
  2. Be kind to yourself.
  3. Talk to someone you trust about how you are feeling.
  4. Build your mental resiliency and coping skills.
  5. Ask for help.

Interested in learning more about this topic? I encourage you to check out the tips and tricks webinar where they go deeper into this topic.

In the short term, we feel like we can power through, but in the long term, we are neglecting our own basic needs. Taking a little time each day to nurture your well-being will help you be a happier person. You and your family deserve the best possible you!

Written by:  Amanda Bohlen, Family and Consumer Sciences Educator, Ohio State University Washington County.

Reviewed by: Alisha Barton, Family and Consumer Sciences Educator, Ohio State University Extension Miami County.

Sources:

Fradin, K. (2023, April 13). I’m a prediatrician-here are the unseen challenges working parents are facing. Retrieved from https://www.fastcompany.com/90879953/the-unseen-challenges-working-parents-are-facing

Psychology Today. (n.d.). Burnout. Retrieved from https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/burnout

The Ohio State University Chief Wellness Officer. (n.d.). Burned out by pandemic parenting? You’re not alone . Retrieved from https://wellness.osu.edu/chief-wellness-officer/parent-burnout