Samantha Levin
Year in Review
This year I am proud to say that I have grown significantly as a person in ways that I never could have imagined I’d be able to. I can definitely say that my freshman year has changed me for the better and although I am still improving and progressing, I am delighted with where I have ended up.
I started off the year as a nutrition and exercise science major. I had always been interested in fitness and nutrition and I thought this would be the perfect path for me. Chemistry 1210 changed my view on this completely. I struggled tremendously through that class and the idea that I would have to take many more chemistry classes in the coming semesters for my major greatly unsettled me. Due to this factor, I decided this major was not for me. Fortunately, I had taken an introductory psych class the first semester as well and it fascinated me. I was always looking forward to attending that class each and every tuesday and thursday. As a result I chose a psych major with a criminology minor to be my path instead. Currently I love the classes I am taking and am very glad that I found my interest in college.
While I did learn a lot in my classes I have to admit that I learned much more outside of the classroom. I had come into Ohio State suffering from years of depression, eating disorders, and terrible confidence/low self esteem. I viewed myself as inferior to everyone else. I could not believe when anyone said they cared about me because I could not see anything in myself that was worth caring for. I remember one night my roommate was about to about to go make pancakes with her boyfriend when she saw me crying. We sat on my bed together and I was hysterical about how much I hated myself and no matter how many times she told me she loved me I could not believe her words. She called the RA and I ended up in a psychiatric hospital involuntarily. I was mad at her for many nights until I realized that she may have saved me. I am not sure what I would have done to myself that night, if it were not for her and I am genuinely grateful.
While I am stilling battling my demons I have begun to accept myself more for who I am. I had always wanted to find a way to “fix myself” because I could not understand why I was so inferior to anyone else. I have started to challenge these beliefs about myself because I have realized that they are not rational thoughts. I have begun to see the beauty in the world and although I am far from loving myself at this point, I have made big steps in the right direction.
A favorite memory from the past year was the moment that I realized I was not being very logical and was beating myself up for reasons that were not legitimate. The day that I realized this, it was morning and I was laying on my dorm room bed. A feeling came over me and my inner voice told me that I was not good enough and never would be. I went outside with my music playing loud in my headphones like I normally do in these types of situations in a desperate effort to forget my thoughts. As I walked outside I could not believe how beautiful everything was. There were little snowflakes falling down and I had never seen anything more exquisite. My mindset completely changed in this moment. I started crying tears of joy. Maybe I wasn’t worthless, maybe I did have some purpose on this earth, and maybe I wasn’t completely unlovable. I cannot explain the immense feeling of joy that I felt when I came to this realization. It was like I had been freed from a cage that had been holding me captive for so many years. I told my roommates and my mom that night and they were also extremely happy for me. There were many hugs filled with tears of delight on this day.
Next year I am looking forward to further improving myself and advancing on the road to self love and self discovery. While I am not fully in the midst of darkness anymore I still have many insecurities to work on. Loving myself for my flaws is what I am trying to accomplish. Although my stutter does slightly hold me back I want to focus on not caring what other people think about me due to it because I know that it is not my fault and it is an unchangeable characteristic about myself. I also want to start accepting my personality for what it is. I may not be the most outgoing person and I may be a little awkward sometimes but who says that is a bad thing? I need to learn to start loving myself for who I am and not base my own judgment of myself on what other people think about me or how I perceive them to think about me.