Going into college, I assumed I’d be able to continue my good habits from high school. This included staying involved, getting enough sleep, balancing social life with school, actively learning through classes and homework, studying thoroughly, and doing well on tests. But almost right away, it seemed as if I forgot how to be a proper student. All of my hard work and dedication that I had in high school seemed to slip away. I no longer knew how to study and live an unorganized life, and my exam scores showed it. To be frank, it was a rough semester. As an engineering student, I was aware that everything I was doing would be hard, but I thought I was more capable of being sucessfull. There would be days where I swore it would never get better and I would never be a good student again.
Though the majority of the semester was unsuccessful and I had seemingly no hope for the future of my college career, I feel that I finally learned how to manage. It isn’t perfect, but I improved a lot in my everyday habits. My studying and time management is slowly but surely getting to where it needs to be, I am learning my strengths and weaknesses to learning, and I am finding different methods of getting things done. The main thing I learned: college is not like high school. What I thought was me being a perfect student in high school did not translate well into college. Much like in computer coding, using the same code in a different programming language won’t get you anywhere, and this applies to using the same mentality in high school as I did in college. Adjustments are hard, and for me, it seemed to take longer than most to adapt to this new lifestyle. But I am now confident that I will improve every semester as long as I keep a positive mindset.
This transition contributed a lot to my personal development. I learned that being adaptable is vital to success and that bad times don’t last forever. It helped me realize that everything in life won’t be clear-cut like they previously were and that I will stumble along the way. I am thankful I went through (and am still going through) these struggles because I know it is making me a stronger person. Life is full of ups and downs and twists and turns but as long as you put in effort and learn to adjust, you will pull through.