My first-year mentee is Meg Spohn who is from Lewis Center which is just a short drive from campus in Columbus, OH. Her major is currently early childhood education, but she is switching her major to nursing. Her high school career led her to great academic success and she was in National Honors Society while also playing basketball. She carried it on to college where she has gotten straight A’s the first semester of her career at OSU as well as so far in the second semester. Her journey to Ohio State has not been too harsh of a transition because she is close to home, but her family has moved since she has been at school so this will be a little bit of an adjustment when she goes home for the summer this year! Meg does miss the act of playing basketball, but goes to the gym J.O. South to get her exercise in and loves being so close to it living in Smith Steeb!
My mentee Meg and I had a lot in common both on surface levels as well as personal levels! She and I are similar in terms of being blonde and enjoying working out. We both love being out in the sun and being organized. When Meg talks about her schoolwork and what she is interested in and excels at, I can see a lot of similarities between the two of us in terms of work ethic and talents. The love for being social as well as taking time for ourselves is also very important to both Meg and I! We talk about liking to balance self care with hanging out with friends and I gave her tips on how to help maintain a balance while living with a roommate. One difference that Meg and I have is that she came into ACES deciding between nursing and teaching and has chosen to be a nurse, whereas I went into ACES deciding if I wanted to go into nursing or business and chose to be a business major. I think that while I considered nursing, I am very confident that it was not the correct path for me and my career, yet Meg is the opposite. She has been able to learn through her education classes this year that it is not for her and is passionate about her decision to become a nurse!
I think that Meg grew in her strength and passions in her future career and has decided to be a nurse. The passion that she showed when I talked to her recently about her decision to pursue nursing was so inspiring! She talked very highly about the experience she had shadowing a nurse and seems a lot more sure about the decision to not be a teacher than she did at the beginning of the year.
I think that I grew as a mentor and a leader this year by being a good sounding board as well as giving advice. I think that an important part of being a leader is being someone who people can rely on to listen to them and also give them thoughtful and unbiased feedback. I think that I have found myself thinking a lot deeper into helping Meg with her questions and concerns with classes, ACES, OSU, friends, and all types of questions. This deeper thought and care into Meg has taught me to slow down and actually listen closely to people. This has helped me with my leadership development because it can be applied on this one-on-one scenario, but also on a bigger scale because you still need to listen intensely to be able to lead the best.
I helped Meg in terms of mentoring by helping her decide that she wanted to switch her major and feeling strong about her decision. Socialization was something that my co-mentor Eliza and I were able to help her with by encouraging her to both talk to people in ACES as well as outside of the group so that she can have a well-rounded group of people around her. She is living with 7 other girls next year which she is excited about! We helped Meg with orientation at Ohio State by giving her lots of tips and favorites of ours on campus and off!
I think that the benefits of this program lie within the personal connections that you make while being in the program as well as the skills that it teaches you. I think that I have been able to grow my leadership skills while also making a new friend which is so special!
Pictured is my co-mentor Eliza, myself, and my mentee Meg.