Mentorship Experience
This semester I had the opportunity to mentor Katie Patty and Hannah McCoy. I enjoyed getting to know each of them throughout the course of the year. Katie Patty is a Mathematics Education Major from Mentor, Ohio. Throughout the year she has gotten involved in many activities around campus including rushing sorority, joining a dance club called Studio Dance, and tutoring middle school students. She has enjoyed her math classes and First Year Education Experience program where she was able to explore her future career path. I have enjoyed being able to watch Katie embrace life at Ohio State and find activities that make her happy and people she enjoys being around. Hannah McCoy is a Social Work major from Raleigh, North Carolina. Throughout her time at Ohio State so far Hannah has found a major and future career path that she is incredibly passionate about and joined organizations such as Pride Club and Out in Business. Unfortunately, I was unable to get in contact with Hannah for our second semester interview, so I was unable to see how her second semester went or if she rushed or got involved in an acting group like she was hoping to do during our first interview. I enjoyed getting know Hannah and am glad she found an inclusive community and group of friends she felt comfortable with here at Ohio State.
Though my mentees and I do not have the same major or share the same academic goals, we share a passion for helping others. All of our majors are very different, but in some way or another we have the same goal of improving the lives of others. Katie wants to be a middle school or high school math teacher and her dream job would to be a math teacher and coach middle school cheer in the town she grew up in. In both of these positions she has the opportunity to influence the lives of the students she teaches and coaches and hopefully make a positive impact on their lives. Hannah hopes to help improve military mental health services which she has seen first-hand are in great need of improvement. By doing this she will be able to improve the lives of countless men and women who have chosen to serve our country. I hope to become a doctor where I will be able to advocate for and improve the lives of my patients when they are not at their best. ACES and the mentorship program have given us a platform to come together and learn and grow from each other’s passions. Though we have the same passion for helping others we also have many differences. For instance, both Katie and Hannah come from much different backgrounds than me. It was interesting to see how this influences how we look at the world and pursue of our goals. We also have many different interests. For example, Katie likes dancing and math, but I have an incredibly uncoordinated and very terrible at math, and Hannah likes acting and speech and debate, while I hate being in front of crowds and do not like confrontation. I enjoyed hearing about my mentee’s interests and passions; it was extremely interesting to hear someone talk about why they love the things they enjoy doing the most.
Though I was unable to see how Hannah grew from first to second semester, I enjoyed seeing how Katie had changed. I was glad to see that she had become involved in groups on campus that shared her passions. I was also glad to hear that she was able to find places on campus that she enjoyed studying at and that she had developed a schedule that allowed her to successfully balance school and her activities. Though our time was unfortunately cut short, I though enjoyed getting to know both my mentees throughout our time together. I was able to learn a great deal about myself and develop better leadership skills. Though time management was already very important to me in my everyday life, I usually just have to work around my own chaotic schedule, but when working with my mentees I also had to work around their equally busy schedules. This helped me improve my time management skills and help make me more flexible in my plans and schedule, since I usually do not like changing my schedule once I have made it. It also improved my communication skills. At times it was difficult and frustrating to try to get a hold of my mentees and make plans that worked for both of us. Because of this I had to make sure I was persistent when sending messages and make sure that the messages I sent were detailed and specific so plans could be made easily but still make sure the messages were friendly and warm so my mentees felts comfortable. I was also able to improve my listening skills through the interviews with my mentees.
Through the mentorship program I was able to provide my mentees with lots of details about ACES, such as answering their questions about how the program works and how the time commitment and work required changes as you go through the program. I was also able to provide suggestions of service opportunity and student organizations they might enjoy based on their interest, as well as share some of my favorite study spots and activities to do on and around campus. The mentorship program is a beneficial program for both the mentee and the mentor. As a mentor I was able to improve my leadership and communication skills and really enjoyed getting to know my mentees and exploring Columbus with them. For the mentees the program is beneficial because you are able to contact with a peer that has just gone through the transition from high school to college. This is a difficult time and it is very helpful to have a person you can reach out to for advice on ACES, classes, and how things work on campus. As a freshman, I debated joining the mentorship program because I did not know if it is something I would enjoy, but after experiencing the program from both the perspective of a mentee and a mentor I am extremely glad I decided to join the program.