September 24, 2020
In August 2020 I became a mentor for Community Refugee and Immigration Services. We had a training session about suicide prevention. We learned signs of someone having suicidal thoughts, what to tell someone who is contemplating suicide, and who to tell if someone we know is experiencing this. Some of the warning signs that we were told to look for include isolation, changes in eating or sleeping habits, trauma, and untreated depression. One of the most important signs that I learned was if someone who has been depressed or suicidal for awhile is suddenly really happy. This can mean that they have finally decided to commit suicide and they’re happy that they have a way out now. Something else that really stuck out to me is that if you think someone is having suicidal thoughts, it’s okay to ask them if they are. It won’t put the idea in their head and it won’t make it worse. It is better to be upfront and ask them if they are thinking about killing themself than to not say anything and regret it.
I think it is important for everyone to be educated on the warning signs of suicide. It’s a difficult topic to discuss, but could save a lot of lives. We need to work on breaking the stigma around talking about suicide and mental health in general.