The 2002 film, My Big Fat Greek Wedding, highlights an encounter between people of different cultures. The movie focuses on Toula Portokalos, a young Greek woman who falls in love with Ian Miller. Ian is not Greek, which is surprising to Toula’s family. Throughout the movie, Ian learns more about Greek culture through the family and even becomes a member of the Greek Orthodox Church in order to marry Taoula. Many ideals and practices in Greek culture are shown in the movie. Ian experiences these events and learns about them with the intention of implementing them into his life, as he becomes a part of Taoula’s big family. This film highlights interactions between people of different nationalities and religions.
Many aspects of Greek culture are showcased in the film. For example, the food and strong family relationships. Taoula’s family owns a restaurant together, which illustrates Greek food and the family dynamic. Food is a major part of the family and Greek culture. In Ian’s case, he only ate Greek food when he visited the family’s restaurant for a meal. But after meeting Taoula, he enjoyed it for almost every meal. As far as family relationships go, in the movie they demonstrate strong family values. These values included seeing each other almost every day, spending holidays together and playing big roles in their children’s future. The biggest difference between average American families and Taoula’s family is that the extended family is almost considered immediate.
As illustrated in the movie, religion also plays a big role in Greek culture. After Ian proposed to Taoula, her father did not like the fact that Ian was not a member of the Greek Orthodox Church. Due to the fact that it was such a big deal to Taoula’s father and that they were planning on getting married in an Orthodox church, Ian became a member of the church.
Taoula’s identity is also a big part of the movie’s storyline. When it came time to introduce Ian to her family, she felt embarrassed and nervous. Taoula wanted more for her life than what her parents had planned. Her parents’ expectations included finding a Greek husband for their daughter and helping her raise her children. On the other hand, Taoula wanted a career and a chance to meet someone she could be truly happy with. By the end of the movie, Taoula comes to accept her family and the woman has become with their help.