Sophie: Hi guys, my name is Sophie Ireton, and I have a special guest with me today. I’m actually sitting here with my fiancée Sarah Wood. Hi Sarah!
Sarah: Hi!
Sophie: So the reason I brought Sarah on here today is that she and I recently moved to a new apartment and we’ve been witnessing something going on since then that I thought might be pertinent to discuss. So Sarah can you tell me a little bit about what happened?
Sarah: Yeah, um, so like Sophie said we moved to a new apartment in -around the end of January so we’ve been here for a couple months and when we moved we noticed that the people to the left of us and to the right of us they’re both pretty loud. I think the walls might be kind of thin but we can just hear them throughout the day. They’re just pretty noisy. And then we’ve been noticing that a couple times now that the police have been called on the people to the right of us and there have been some noise complaints against them.
Sophie: What we found was interesting, what we thought might make this worth discussing is that that family on the right, um, they are black and the family on the left is white. It starts to make you think you know about what may be causing that. So, you know, in your opinion, Sarah what do you, why do you think we’re seeing this this disparity in the police response to these, these two noisy apartments?
Sarah: I think the reason we’re seeing the difference between the response of the people on the right of us and the left, like Sophie said the people on the right are black. I think it has a lot to do with the town that we live in, in it’s kind of a small town. Um, there’s not a lot of diversity in the town we live in. It’s primarily white and from what we’ve noticed the couple times the police have come is that the police officers are white. So, I think it just has to do with it, um, how like not diverse the town is I would say, and I think it is some racism, whether it’s intended or not against that family.
Sophie: Yeah, and I’ve -we’ve actually had some issues with the unit behind us as well and this is when I first started really thinking about how this could be more than just, you know, upset neighbors, potentially racist neighbors, you know it could be something to do with the police force itself is because you know these people behind us we’ve had some issues with them. Um, I think most of the problems that they have it’s not so much noise it’s more like drug related issues and some actual illegal stuff. It’s important to emphasize, you know this family that keeps having the cops called on them on the right of us they’re not doing anything like illegal or dangerous they just seem to be loud, whereas this family, um, behind us, we’ve never really seen them or seen what’s going on with them but we actually were told by our land manager that that the cops were aware of them.
Sophie: So, because this is a small area, um the fact that they can have so many issues with people behind us they actually seem to know these people tells me, you know, well they’re showing up to this family to the right of us, you know, multiple times. It’s been several times since we moved in that we’ve seen them show up there. They may actually have, you know that visual representation when they’re thinking about noise complaints, are thinking about particular units. It may be, you know, the bias might begin before they even show up at the front door because they might actually know who these people are. It’s hard not to see this situation and not think that there might be something more going on there.
Sophie: You know, Sarah and I, we grew up in a predominantly white area, and an area that we didn’t really have to witness this very often you know you grow up and you, you try to keep yourself aware and informed and you try to believe what you’re hearing but we did grow up with a lot of privilege in that we didn’t have to experience that ourselves but we also didn’t have to witness it, you know, being experienced. I think it’s, you know, now being in the position that I am where I can notice these situations and try to think okay well what could be going on there, I think says everything about what we need to do, you know, as American citizens you know we need to keep ourselves not just informed on what’s going on but try to stay aware of it, try to see when this stuff happens, you know? Sarah what why do you think these situations occur? What do you think is going on in general that situations like this happens so frequently?
Sarah: I think in this situation and others like it I think a lot of it has to do with bias, and the labels that are put on people. So, you know, different minorities have different labels and though some are considered better than others I would say that they’re still putting people in a box. So, with black people, and from the BLM movement, um, especially gaining traction in the last year, I’ve noticed that the label put on black people I, I’ve noticed two but the first one is that they’re dangerous or aggressive and then the second is up they’re loud. So, like Sophie said I’m not sure if the police officers now because they’ve responded to that house a couple times to the right of us with the noise complaint, if they know or if there’s a file or something like that and they know the people they’re going to go check on is a black family or not, but I think a lot of it just has to do with those labels and people are put in those boxes. So, I think that really affects how often the police are called on them and the response once the police are here.
Sophie: Right. I think it also, you know, we rent at this apartment complex. You know they -It may just be an angry neighbor, you know, like we’ve clarified it may just be you know a racist angry neighbor and they might just be lashing out. I know in America, we, we grow up with this kind of, you know, blind patriotism that we’re taught you know America is perfect. There’s nothing wrong with us. It’s not until you get older and you start to really pay attention to the world around you that you start to realize the kind of issues that we have here systematically, and someone who’s, you know, as white people we hold a lot of privilege and we grew up with a lot of privilege, and it can be, you know, much easier to lash out at -at others or blame others or, you know, deny than it is to have these hard conversations you know listen to these, you know, black and minority voices and believe them.
Sophie: But what makes this so dangerous is that, you know, we may ignore something because we don’t want to believe it and then we may, you know, live without awareness, um, as I’m thinking this neighbor does as I think maybe this police force does. You may not even realize that you’re holding biases but then suddenly you’ve called the cops on, you know, a noisy neighbor a few times and maybe it didn’t it didn’t really need to happen. And suddenly a family, maybe loses their home or their job or you know what we’ve, we’ve been made very aware of recently is that there can be very dangerous anytime that there is police interaction, especially in a predominantly white area like we’re in, especially in an area that’s, you know, known to be not very kind to minorities like we’re in, it can be incredibly dangerous every time, you know, black families, particularly black men have to deal with the cops. Um, so like what, what do you think that we can do you know as white women as you know citizens in America, what do you think that we can do to try and help and try to, you know, better this country?
Sarah: I think like you said, we just need to be better about keeping ourselves educated on the issues that other groups face other minorities, other genders face. Just keep yourself educated on that, but I think also, we just need to let the little things go like in the case of our neighbors. Like Sophie was saying it doesn’t seem like they’re doing anything illegal. They’re not being disrespectfully loud. I have before heard the people behind us walking up the stairs because they’re creaky. So, I think we just need to like give people a little break and think about what is the worst case that could come out of this. So, like she was saying the worst case could be that these people have to move, um, move homes and that could affect you know their income, it could affect their happiness all these sorts of things. So, I think at the end of the day we just need to kind of step back and think about what could happen-
Sophie: Right.
Sarah: if you do this.
Sophie: Yeah, I think, I think you brought up a really good point towards the end there, sorry I kind of jumped in, because it’s, it’s important to know, you know, letting those little things go in, in that if you – Even if you’re unaware of yourself holding bias, you can make yourself aware of, okay, I am calling the cops on a noisy neighbor and it makes -it’d be easy to feel very justified in doing that, you know, they keep me up all the time it can be easy to get angry and easy to lash out in those ways but calling the cops on a noisy white neighbor is not the same thing as calling the cops on a noisy black neighbor and unfortunately in America that’s just how things are, you know? Likely the worst case scenario we call the cops on a noisy white neighbor, they get maybe a slap on the wrist you know it takes a lot of interaction for things really serious to occur there. If we call the cops on an angry black neighbor, you know, if you know a black man opens the door, you know, it could end up being a very dangerous situation and is that noise complaint, really worth it? Especially to the degree that we’ve been noticing that them calling the cops on this family, you know having awareness is concerned to, to prevent situations like that from happening at least as frequently as they do. You know, a few months ago I watched a TED talk by a Nigerian writer. Her name is Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie and she, she talks about the concept of a single story, which is, you know, her example was as Americans, we have a single story of Africa we think of poverty, we think of struggle and it makes it really easy for us to hold on to biases and deny you know maybe biases that we have for, you know, Africans because we hold this single story and we have stories like this, about, you know, many more minorities many other countries we have a single story about ourselves that we’re very patriot-, like, we’re very patriotic we’re very perfect we’re not, you know, we’re the land of the free and I think a very important thing that we can do as Americans as we grow up, is to try to become aware of the systematic racism of the systematic injustices that we have in our country, and know that growing up in the system these stories that we that we hear they’re not always correct and they’re definitely not the only one. You know being aware of this and trying to learn more about others, learn more stories, keep yourselves aware, you know let black and minority voices be heard and then believe them.
Sophie: So all right, it seems like that’s all the time we have today. I just want to reiterate, to our audience that you know Sarah and I were not personally impacted by racism in a negative way. We are both white, so we can’t really begin to fully understand and comprehend, you know, everything that’s happening how it feels and the lessons we need to be taking from this. So, I want to emphasize the importance of doing your own research, research doing your own learning. You know, if there is anything we said or discussed that you feel is incorrect or missed the mark or you just have something to add please feel free to comment. Let us know and keep the conversation going. Um, we really look forward to seeing you all next time!
Sarah: Bye guys!