My first-year mentee was Sarah Ramsey, a middle childhood education major. Sarah is originally from Columbus, more specifically the Dublin area located about twenty minutes from campus. We both share the love of dogs and other animals and were able to bond over that throughout the year. Additionally, we both value friendships and family, but focus on school and are not interested in being out late. Similarly, we both chose Ohio State for financial reasons but have enjoyed our time here and plan on continuing.
We have not had much time together outside of talking about Advocates for Community and Education Scholars. From what we have learned about each other, we are both very engaged in our communities and want to make a difference in the world– her through teaching and me through work in the criminal justice system. One of the entertaining differences between us is our height. I am a whopping six foot one and Sarah is barely five feet tall which can be funny when we are sitting down for a while, forget our height difference, then stand up. Outside of that, I have not been able to identify very many differences other than our overall personalities. I am more extroverted while Sarah is introverted and tends to keep to herself.
In our experiences together I have watched Sarah grow tremendously. Academically, I have watched her become more successful in her classes and actually enjoy what she is doing rather than just doing classes that are recommended and scheduled for her. She has also made closer connections and friends and felt more connected to the Ohio State community. As a leader, I believe I have grown to better understand the challenges my leaders/bosses/mentors encounter while trying to balance their own lives and jobs while also supporting me. When life got in the way, it was easy to prioritize things that seem important to me but I also learned how to best support Sarah while getting my stuff done. Mentoring was something that I have not officially done but have adopted to younger members in groups that I have been a part of. Officially having the title has been a bit odd but after some adjustment, I think I have grown into the role and learned how to support those around me.
From being a mentor I have learned how to work better in a team setting and identify when those around me are struggling. This skill has been extremely beneficial in my job as a resident advisor in Park-Stradley Hall. This program has pushed me to be a better communicator and leader and I am thankful for the experience it has given me. It has helped me better adjust my method of communicating as well as learning how to not be overbearing towards new people that may not be as outgoing as me. It has also helped me systematically arrange tasks that I need to complete while still supporting my mentor and residence life staff.
I believe I was able to help Sarah in regards to suggesting new places to eat and study around campus. In our time together we have gone to Espress-OH in the Ohio Union, to Winston’s Food Truck and Lucky’s Market in Clintonville, and just went to different ACES events throughout the year. Since everything was primarily closed around campus for dine-in last year, I have had a very different experience than Sarah has had during our first year at Ohio State. We have discovered together good places to go around campus as well as shared our places to avoid. I think our time together has helped us both learn more about our campus and be more engaged in the ACES program.
The mentorship program has given me many benefits throughout my time as a mentee as well as a mentor. We have helped each other grow and my mentor during my first year was a great resource for me. Although Sarah and I did not have the same major, I hope that I was still able to help her when she needed words of encouragement or just general support. The program overall helps first-year members connect with someone at Ohio State even though they already have a resident advisor, peer mentor, and academic advisors to do the same. Sometimes the program can seem a bit excessive when you have all of these groups working together, trying to schedule meetings with you, and settling into Ohio State and finding your place. Overall, I believe the mentorship program is beneficial as long as you have someone that can understand that everyone has prior commitments and prioritizes things differently.





