So you’re no virgin – you fooled around in high school and had a “went all the way” partner before coming to Ohio State. But now you’ve met a special person, and things are getting pretty serious. When do you start talking about testing?
As a doctor at Student Health, I have talked to students that have made different decisions when it comes to sex and STI testing. Some get tested before they ever have any sex. Some do it before they decide to have penetrative sex (you know, intercourse, either vaginal or anal). Some decide to get tested when they are ready to stop using condoms with their partner. (which opens up a whole can of worms when it comes to preventing pregnancy, but that is a different post.)
So, which decision is the right one? Let’s compare another situation:
- Person 1 likes to put on her seat belt as soon as she gets in the car,
- Person 2 waits until she is pulling out of the Lennox parking lot and onto the street, and
- Person 3 only wears hers when driving on the freeway.
Who is the safest? Who is right? It’s hard to say because everyone thinks about risk and how much risk they are willing to take on differently. That is why you must talk to your partner about STI’s. Don’t assume that they will decide for you, or that you can decide for your partner. TALK.
Ready to get tested? Visit our web site or call for more information and to get it done. All enrolled OSU students are eligible to be seen at Student Health Services, right here next door to the RPAC.
See you soon.
Roger Miller, MD
Student Health Services
The Ohio State University