My first-year mentee was Jillian Finkle. Jillian is a Political Science major and very determined and involved on campus! Some things that Jillian and I had in common was our passion for helping others, especially younger children and adolescents. As I am majoring in early childhood education, I plan to teach children in grades PreK-3. While teaching, I want to focus in on helping my students understand their potential and reach it. I also want to provide a safe and comfortable environment for my students and help them grasp onto just how important and special they each are. Lastly, I want to educate them not only on academic things but also on social and moral norms and standards. Jillian, being a political science major, is also very passionate about people. She wants to help people by fighting for and promoting things that have people’s best interests in mind. Jillian is very proactive in mentoring young women and fighting for their rights. On a sillier note, another thing that Jillian and I have in common is our love for old ghost stories. We both have always been intrigued by these stories and have fun learning about them!
Jillian has always been very involved and determined since she started, but during her second semester, the fruits of her labor really started coming to life. She was elected to a leadership position in one of her clubs and she was also selected to go on some very cool trips and meet some awesome people because of her hard work and dedication. Jillian is definitely a force to be reckoned with!
As for me, I found myself getting more and more comfortable with Jillian as the year went on. I was able to open up a lot more and once I did, she did the same! One thing I learned, is that in order to have a genuine relationship, you need to learn to be vulnerable and honest. I believe that without doing so, you will have no more than a surface level relationship. I also learned that your mentee doesn’t need to be best friends with you, but they do need to know that you will be there and support them no matter what. Throughout the year, I also saw myself being more diligent on time when it came to doing things with my mentee. I can be really bad at procrastinating at times, but having a mentee kept me more accountable. I had to plan ahead and make sure I gave Jillian enough of a heads up about things that we were able to get all of our interviews and explore Columbus events completed on time. This is something that has tremendously shaped me as a leader.
I was able to help my mentee at the beginning of her first semester with many of the questions she had about college overall, classes, workload, social groups, clubs, aces, service, and many other things. In our first interview, Jillian was great about bringing things up that she had questions about. Many of the questions were focused on academics, such as, what exams and finals are like and how much work you put in in a normal week. I was also able to walk her through some service suggestions and gave her some advice on ways to meet all of her aces requirements.
I think that there are many benefits to the mentorship program. One of the major benefits of it is that it forces people to experience something that may be out of their comfort zone or something that they just wouldn’t have done if they didn’t sign up for the mentoring program. Personally, I would have not gotten so close to a first-year member without the mentorship program which would be a great experience that I would have missed out on. I also would not have gone to the new places I have been to because of our explore Columbus trips. I think that the mentorship program is also great for the mentee, as it gives them someone to go to with questions and rely on. It also gives them the opportunity to explore Columbus with someone a little more experienced than them. As a previous mentee, I absolutely loved the explore Columbus experiences that I went on with my mentor. Lastly, I think that the mentorship program helps you to work on bettering your relationship and social skills. These are things that are so important in every aspect of life and it is always great to work on these skills and the mentorship program did just that!